How you treat yourself sets the tone for how others treat you.Make yourself well even when things are not going so well.women faces a lot of challenges without noticing,and when she comes back to her minds she has been wasted and also lowered down financially or even physically.
Most of the women are a cause of downfall to their friends,some may be betrayers,some their friendship with that woman she values so much is toxic that her friend is only taking from her and slowing her down and not adding value to her life,and might be the man she loves so much is also fraud,
When this woman comes back to her senses,she will look inward,thereafter,there will be anger and blame,usually heaped on herself,then she will embark on fixing herself because she believes this is what is expected of her.
A woman who finds herself hurt,disappointed or taken advantage of should ask herself this question:What would a woman who loves herself do?
She will not sacrifice her friendship because her friends are looking good and she is afraid her man might catch the wandering eye
She will not build her life around another person ,she will not judge herself based on perceptions of those around her.
A woman who loves hersef will work on her life,bult it and let others fit into it,she will drop everything and run every time that man she is seeing calls;her schedule will not revolve around another.
A woman who loves herself ignores societal dictates and takes time out to understand her personal needs and to tend to them.
MOVE ON AND GET YOUR LIFE:
Instead of sitting down on your couch for hours waiting for him to call,get a life.Go out and do something that you enjoy doing, if you are in a relationship that is not adding any value to you,love yourself enough to walk away.
A woman who loves and values herself will also be able to ask more of a relationship,let that man chase you,dont go to the gym just because your man said you need to while he sits on the couch tending to his pot belly,only do it because you want to.
Love yourself unconditionally and enough to put yourself first.Seeing as the Kenyan girl is socialised to put others first,to never wander too far away from home because she mustalways think about those she leaves behind,prioritising your needs may not come naturally,you might need to make a concious effort to get there,
Start with baby steps,start by believing that loving yourself is not selfish.
Its truewhat they say that to be able to say that "I love you",you must be able to say the "I"first.If you can do this,it will be easier for those around you to also love you,they wont have a choice.
Instead of sitting down on your couch for hours waiting for him to call,get a life.Go out and do something that you enjoy doing, if you are in a relationship that is not adding any value to you,love yourself enough to walk away.A woman who loves and values herself will also be able to ask more of a relationship,let that man chase you,dont go to the gym just because your man said you need to while he sits on the couch tending to his pot belly,only do it because you want to.
Love yourself unconditionally and enough to put yourself first.Seeing as the Kenyan girl is socialised to put others first,to never wander too far away from home because she mustalways think about those she leaves behind,prioritising your needs may not come naturally,you might need to make a concious effort to get there,
Start with baby steps,start by believing that loving yourself is not selfish.
Its truewhat they say that to be able to say that "I love you",you must be able to say the "I"first.If you can do this,it will be easier for those around you to also love you,they wont have a choice.
HOW DO YOU KNOW A WOMAN WHO LOVES HERSELF:
She is sure about her desire in life.she has establish goals and benchmarks for herself and they wont get beaten by any limitations that get her idea.she is always outgoing and desire to achive her set goals.
You look to like the mysterios guy in the world when you are with her,because one thing you are sure of is that, someone as unsual as he would not just date a guy.She is strong confident woman,and she is not scared of being alone so she must really like you,if she has chosen to share her life with you!
She is never humble in the bedroom,if there is something she require to do she comes out and say it clearly,she will even justify the reasons for it instead of getting awkward,she does not act like confidence is something to be hidden and never talk about it,she is ready enough to take it as perfectly normal.
Her social communications behaviour is not something that she will ever need to hide or be disconcerted about,she knows how to present herself infront of somebody,whether it is in character or on a computer screen.
She does not act like the entire world turns around her,she wants love,and value from you.and she is ready to offer you the same, she wont require you to defeat your own passions just to keep her comfortable.
She has strong opinions on almost every topic and she will never shy down from showing them just to avoid discussions or to keep everyone satisfied,but this does not mean that she will ever require those beliefs on you,or anyone else, she is open to negotiations and any argument you wont turn into furious battle.
She is wise enough to know what topics to discuss with your parents and when she is with your friends, she can let loose and enjoy a good time.
She is sure about her desire in life.she has establish goals and benchmarks for herself and they wont get beaten by any limitations that get her idea.she is always outgoing and desire to achive her set goals.You look to like the mysterios guy in the world when you are with her,because one thing you are sure of is that, someone as unsual as he would not just date a guy.She is strong confident woman,and she is not scared of being alone so she must really like you,if she has chosen to share her life with you!
She is never humble in the bedroom,if there is something she require to do she comes out and say it clearly,she will even justify the reasons for it instead of getting awkward,she does not act like confidence is something to be hidden and never talk about it,she is ready enough to take it as perfectly normal.
Her social communications behaviour is not something that she will ever need to hide or be disconcerted about,she knows how to present herself infront of somebody,whether it is in character or on a computer screen.
She does not act like the entire world turns around her,she wants love,and value from you.and she is ready to offer you the same, she wont require you to defeat your own passions just to keep her comfortable.
She has strong opinions on almost every topic and she will never shy down from showing them just to avoid discussions or to keep everyone satisfied,but this does not mean that she will ever require those beliefs on you,or anyone else, she is open to negotiations and any argument you wont turn into furious battle.
She is wise enough to know what topics to discuss with your parents and when she is with your friends, she can let loose and enjoy a good time.
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