BEFORE YOU DATE HIM, CHECK THIS OUTIs he protective? A father is able to protect you in any way, he must be able to ensure that you are not being harmed by those around you, families differ in a lot of ways, there are those families who are happy when their children marry and there are those who want their kids not to marry.
When you are happy with your fiance, take some time to imagine how his mother is because there are crazy mothers-in-law who judge your lifestyle and they tend to believe that you are misusing her sons' money. Such like women are jealous and I believe they won't care about their generation kept.
When you are married to this kind of family, then Girl get ready for war, I believe that a strong family is mothers' hard work and commitment. Your partner should be able to defend you in any way or another, he should not be that type of man who lies to his mothers' side.
Protection comes in when he corrects anyone who comes in your way wrongly in a strong and commanding way and does not quarrel to you because you mean a lot to him and he is protecting you in all ways.
Is he a provider? in marriage, provision is not all about money, ask yourself, is he able to provide wisdom? is he able to provide friendship? is he able to provide counsel? does he have a giving spirit? he has to be adding some value into your life, your life should be richer and fuller because he satisfies you with what nature needs.
When a man is able to provide wisdom, then his family will never lack food because his family is his first prior in everything, he involves you in his plans that will keep you as a family going, he is always your friend and treats everyone like his friend because he knows that there is power in friendship.
He should be able to seek advice from the experts because he knows that those with experience are best teachers, he should also be a good counselor, he should be a problem solver because he is the head of a family.
Is he a promoter? somebody who promotes somebody is the best, it is not all about making his family look good but he is able to use what God has gifted him to make his family look good. he should put his family as his first prior and should be proud of his family always.
